Crystal Hefner, widow of Hugh Hefner, opens her heart about the new phase of her life, where feelings and emotions are finally valued. After years of struggling with a relationship that left her marked, she found a new love and a fresh perspective on life alongside James Ward, an adventurous businessman who makes her feel “so lucky.
” In her recent book “Only Say Good Things: Surviving Playboy and Finding Myself,” Crystal reveals the challenges she faced and the journey of self-discovery that brought her to this point.
Crystal Hefner’s Journey of Self-Discovery
For the past seven years, Crystal has faced an emotional whirlwind, battling memories of an emotionally abusive relationship with Playboy’s iconic founder, Hugh Hefner. The book not only narrates her personal experience but also serves as a guide for others who might be going through similar situations.
Since her life changed dramatically, Crystal has focused on rediscovering her identity, something she felt she had lost over time. “I’m learning to value every emotion I feel now,” says Crystal, reflecting on how her previous relationship limited her. She emphasizes that, with James, her emotions are not only accepted but also validated. This brings a relief she hadn’t experienced in a long time.
A New Love and Emotional Renewal
Crystal met James Ward, 41, through friends in April of this year. Since then, she has enjoyed a romance described as healthy and full of empathy. “I never thought I could feel so free and accepted,” says the widow, adding that James inspires her to explore her adventurous spirit. He owns an adventure and photography business in Hawaii, and this undoubtedly brings a new energy to Crystal’s life.
- What Crystal values in James:
- Emotional Support: He gives her space to express her emotions.
- Adventure: He has an active lifestyle that aligns with her desire to explore the world.
- Authenticity: She feels she can truly be herself with him.
The Benefits of a Positive Relationship
Crystal’s new relationship is not just a romance; it represents a phase of personal growth and self-appreciation. Unlike her previous experience, where insecurities were constant, with James she has found the freedom to be who she really is. This change is essential for her mental and emotional health.
“With him, I don’t need to be perfect; I just need to be myself,” exclaims Crystal, emphasizing how vital acceptance is in her new life. This transformation is reflected in her mental health and overall happiness. She feels more connected to her true self than ever before.
Connection Between Soul and Adventures
Hawaii, where James built his business, symbolizes Crystal’s new life mission. The adventures they share help Crystal nurture not only her body but also her spirit. “I’m rediscovering the joy of living, loving, and being happy,” says Crystal, with a sparkle in her eyes.
In addition to the emotional achievements, she also cherishes the value of shared experiences. Being outdoors and connecting with nature is something she has always desired, and now she has the opportunity to live it. Each day becomes a new adventure, and together, they seek little pleasures that make life more meaningful.